A Piece of Encouragement for Millenials (FB)

Your heart cry for spiritual mothers and fathers has not fallen on deaf ears.  Please be patient.  You see, the generation that pointed you toward craft beer and quinoa if full of so much more.  Don’t worry, they aren’t asleep, they’re just busy…and bored.  But the boredom – it’s the boredom that they can’t stand and will cause them to rise up when it’s time to roll.   You see, something happened to them – something wonderful and miraculous and somewhat unprecedented.   They experienced a move of the Holy Spirit that touched and changed everything.  But sometimes it’s hard to see a movement when you’re in it- you just call it life.  But it was a move.  There was real life – there was power-  there was a sense of purpose.  And unlike generations before them that were offered the invitation and squandered it for treasure – the mothers and fathers, sisters and brothers who are now in their 30’s and 40’s never bowed to Baal.  Their error was more subtle, more salvageable – though their cost of freedom will be civil war.  The error was in believing their fathers and mothers who told them to use the gifts, the presence, the move to build programs and pulpits and conferences and celebrities and camps and content and gatherings and networks.  But they actually tasted something real – and a few of them will soon begin to taste again – and they’ll have the courage to lead.  And yes, it will cause civil war but don’t engage  - it’s between them and their fathers.  Follow the leaders – and here’s how you’ll know them.  They won’t call you to their thing – they’ll release you into yours.  They will invite you into family and will introduce you to power and, in the end, you will say “the mothers and fathers wouldn’t allow us to settle for any less that the life of Jesus – and it has made all the difference.” 

Can't stop thinking about... (fb)

Three things keep coming back to me daily over the past couple of weeks - wish there was time to unpack:


1.  People need to be encouraged


Loving encouragement is like finding water in the desert - it lifts and blesses.  How can I be a great encourager to the people I have the privilege of relating with?


2.  His capacity was 12


Vision for the Church, for the church, for multiple businesses, social entrepreneurship, city transformation, neighborhood development, racial reconciliation, local food, marriage, kids, maintaining relationships, develop young leaders, Africa, marginalized women, urban core, suburban edge, Young Life, endurance lifestyle, connect, train...  Jesus never came up with a program, didn't hold conferences, left once it became a crowd, didn't build an organization or a building, didn't need a facility or a staff, didn't spend energy building a network, collecting friends, or building buzz.  He had the greatest capacity, skill, gifts of any human that ever lived and had a vision to change everything forever.  His method was to invest relationally, as a lifestyle,  in 12 people- and one of those twisted off.  In a "hit" culture am I willing to live in the reality that the way to change the world is to invest in a few?  I've been given a wife, two kids, and a handful of young men and women who seem blessed when I serve them.  The people who do that well change the world.  How can I do that better and be satisfied in it?


3.  Living in "vision-realized" and too happy to notice


Moses, David, John, Paul... It begins with vision and destiny.  Suffering and desert bring intimacy with God.  At some point they begin to walk in "vision-realized" but by then He is the vision and a sense of His nearness makes the strivers dream irrelevant.  Lord, I want to stand in the middle of a raging revival of city transformation and have that pale in comparison to the raging fire happening in my own heart from a sense of nearness to you.  

Healing by Community (fb)

A recent Wall Street Journal article told the story of Lance Corporal Seth Voie- how he watched his best friend killed by a mine- how he dealt with the incredible loss- how the Marines are rethinking emotional trauma and how to best help men like Lance Cpl. Voie.

The devastation experienced by Lance Cpl. Voie in Afghanistan takes place in hearts and lives every day- the unexpected death of a loved one, the betrayal of a spouse, financial ruin.  Things that involve loss – loss that feels like total loss of everything.  How does one begin to rebuild, replace, relive…re-live…live again?

I wouldn’t pretend to know how most people, most cultures handle heart trauma- but have watched one particular people-group enough to have noticed a pattern.  They tend to linger in denial, over-spiritualize, retreat, isolate, and seek specialized individual treatment- usually in the form of paid counselors.  Sometimes there is an initial reaction of generosity in the form of food and cards, but by and large, the community tends to give space- content to wait until the grieving one reengages at their own pace, in their own way, if ever at all.  There is a general sense that healing is best left to trained professionals.  It’s not surprising, since this particular culture has generally embraced paid specialists for many of the significant parts of community life.

So what did the Marines do with a heartbroken Lance Corporal Voie?   “Sgt. Tippett and his men rallied around Lance Cpl. Seth Voie…There was no formal therapy, no group intervention, just casual conversations.  They shared stories of lost friends and gruesome moments.  They let him mourn, but refused to let him wallow in “why-him?” and “what –if?”  They kept him fighting.”  The Marines have been studying mental-health issues intently, referring to research that the Israeli military did in the 1980s.  “The latest research suggests troops handle battlefield stress better, and avoid post-war problems more often, when they heal among their comrades.”  “The closer they are to their buddies, and the company they trained and deployed with, the better chance you have of returning them to combat.”  The Marines are finding out that soldiers’ hearts heal best when they are quickly connected to their community and reengaged in their mission. 

All of the biblical material that describes this global community called Church jibes with the following in regards to trauma and healing:

-       Expect regular trauma at a deep heart level as a result of living in the “now but not yet”- we are an army at war and there will be casualties

-       Much of that trauma is relational and some can be avoided with an intense commitment to healthy relationships and aggressive conflict resolution “in the family”

-       The most dangerous thing a wounded person can do is to become isolated from their community

-       Healing should primarily take place in the context of community and mission.  Community is a group of people who do life together.  Mission is the lifestyle of the community called Church – it isn’t a meeting or an activity, it certainly isn’t formal “ministry.”  Under no circumstances should something involving a stage or a title be confused with mission- generally those things are hindrances to healing.

The Marines are discovering principles that a Creator built into our communal DNA.  Perhaps the next generation of American Christians will have the courage to love our wounded differently.

*  All quotes are from the article “Rx for Combat Stress: Comradeship”  Wall Street Journal April 2, 2011.

Classic in the best way (fb)

The SBs just announced a new church planting initiative- 100 communities in 100 cities launched on 1 day- using the internet to connect people to God and each other, then providing opportunity for them to connect physically (thank you LifeChurch.TV for pioneering).  I'm hoping it's like Danny Wallace "Join Me" style church planting (which has never been more possible thanks to Facebook and Twitter).  They might find a way to mess it up, but....  It's a good example of why the SBs are the only evangelical denomination that has continued to survive, maybe even thrive while the rest whither on the vine.

Why?  Because, throughout their heritage, there are two things they value.

1.  The autonomy of the local church.  They have always been an entrepreneurial movement that values practice over posturing.  They are the NASCAR, git r done denomination.  Do they have bureaucracy and institutions?- of course, but... there is a pilot light still burning that values a decentralized movement united by one thing...

2.  The one thing... a commitment to mission.  This is the thing that unites them.  If it connects people to God- they're in.  They aren't defined (much to the average SB denominational leader's chagrin and they would never admit it) by their theology or doctrine.  Name me an SB theologian- Millard Erickson- ok that's one, but you won't find many.  On the other hand, you'll find lots of Presbyterian, Reformed, Lutheran, Methodist scholars - how are those guys doing?

No- at the end of the day- despite all of their perceived and real crumudgeon-like behavior - the SB's keep coming back to the right question.  "How do we proclaim Good News in this place and in this time?"